Today I thought I would take a leaf out of Cinders' book and show kindness towards OW.
When I was reading some work emails I can across a job advert for a doctors receptionist. It wanted someone who has eastern european language skills and computer skills. She has these so I cut and pasted it into an email to H. I just said I heard she was looking for a job but if it wasn't the type of thing she was looking for to just discard it. It was only for 20 hrs a week but she is doing part time study for a psychology degree so it might suit her.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15