((((((Kris))))))) You do deserve for him to treat you better. You deserve for him to want you back. And maybe making him work for it is what needs to happen.
Remember the 48 hr rule, don't do anything while you're angry. Take a couple days to decide if you really want to file and what your motivations would be - i.e. because you are completely done vs. the beyond the LRT with a hope of shocking him into action.
I don't see what contacting OW will do. You already know what you need to know. And telling her off will only make you feel better temporarily.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2