Sara, thanks for your reply. I don't think that she will be interested in reading anything that is likely to conflict with her distorted view of reality. As far as she is concerned, despite all the red flags, he is the one. As I said before, I will go ahead with the divorce and will not tell her parents. I will only intervene if the well-being of my sons is threatened.
The evening with my new lady friend went really well last night. We have now been seeing each other for over 3 months. We seem to be getting closer. We are traveling abroad for a long week-end next month.
I am hoping that the house will sell very soon as I still feel in limbo. I guess I just have to be patient.