this must be so hard for you hon, but tough love is what's called for here, otherwise he'll just glide along)))))))))
about the ugly convos, it is so easy for our convos to go downhill, to let our anger and hurt just spill out thinking that we will better not realizing the way we are saying things just make things worse. Soooo BTDT. If you find yourself getting agitated and talking loud tell him you are feeling that way, that you want to hear him out but that you are getting too upset and need a break. Letting all the poison out of you only poisons him.
If he is the man you for your he will straighten out and work to get you back, otherwise, he'll walk away and you've lost nothing. YOu are worth more than the life he's been giving you lately.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
