That was a pretty cool post from bizarre I thought.
More and more I can see the reason behind why your D calls you her "favorite hero". You're incredible man!
And I think underneath all of her many layers of delusional, irrational, distorted stuff, your W knows that you are incredible too. There is a part of me that really believes that she most be in awe of how you manage to surgically defuse all of her mine laying and bomb tossing antics. Sooner or later (if it isn't beginning to occur already) she will have to take a step back and perhaps come to the realization that she is wasting so much time, energy, $, and love that could be hers.
You are surely the one who is progressing in all of this and growing by leaps and bounds. She, on the other hand, is doing the exact opposite. Something tells me that you don't get to be any kind of a professor of anything at any kind of college unless you can put these sorts of things together and know what you have in front of you. These tactics are clearly failing her and she must know it.
RTL, you just keep doing the solid work that you have been doing all along and keep your expectations at a bare minimum. With the temps warming up everywhere it is hard to imagine the "ice queen" not turning to liquid soon.
I'll be praying for the best for you and your family.
