Whoa, what a H_ll of a week for you. These dynamics of closeness / distance are mind-boggling in the MLC world. Good for you for handling things calmly, even though I'm sure you were experiencing much gut-wrenching stuff. Sounds like she has shifted from defensive/angry to more mellow and subdued. You have done a great job taking care of yourself during what must be a super difficult time. Do you think there is a possibility that this was not an affair, that it really was innocent?
In any case, you sure have been doing well to go slow, reflect on what you need, and make decisions only as you are clear for yourself.
My week has been brutal too. W. ended it all on Tues. I'm a wreck, but the board does help a little. Here's wishing you a somewhat easier weekend.
