On a better, more upbeat note: Today I went to a Mother's Day tea that my Mom, MIL and I attend every year. A very close friend to my Mother hosts it and it includes friends of my MOther's that I have grown up with. It was nothing unusual until after lunch. The host hands me an invitation and it reads....You are all invited to attend "Blindsided1's" Surprise Baby Shower, May 10th at 12 noon". She says that this is the invitation everyone else got. I got the regular tea invitation. Then out march a line of presents and a cake. They made the tea into a surprise baby shower. I thought I was going to cry. It was one of the sweetest things anyone has ever done for me. There were women there that I have only met once or twice before and they all participated. One of them even sewed me a quilt for the baby. It truly was a wonderful day. It just makes me realize and appreciate all the love and support that I have surrounding me.

Happy Mother's Day to all the Mother's and Mother's to be.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him