Thank you so much for your post. If there is real love, then it will prevail. If not, as sad as it is to admit, then I will be better off w/ out her.
I'm sorry to know you had to go through something this nasty, ugly and painful as well. I'm going to continue to take the high road and let my W drag herself through the mud. However, I know I need to do this and I'm still reluctant to do so. I don't want to hurt my W, but I can't lose my D. I need things on the record to be able to show D what happened b/c she will want to know in time.
If it is to be, it will be. You are exactly right. Even if we do divorce, if we are meant to be, we will be in the end. I think our love is true, but I'm not sure if W is willing or able to remember that as well. Only time will tell and hopefully I can have a last-minute save as well. I can only do my best, take the high road, and hope and pray for that outcome.
Thank you again. I'm smiling as I'm responding to you as you've taken some pressure off of me w/ your straight-forward wisdom and story that gives me hope that I'm not lost in all of this.
