I have asked myself that question time and time again. Am I trying to hang on to who she used to be? Am I trying to change her into my ideal spouse?

I have looked past all her imperfections. There are many. I love who she is inside. I love who she is outside. This is the woman that I want be with for the rest of my life. I want to take care of her. I want to grow old with her. Do I think that she can be more than what she is? I do. Just like I think that I can be so much more.

The problem is, can she see me this way?

What brought you to your conclusion in your sitch?

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."