Very good. You did exactly the right thing. You called his bluff. Now follow through. Do exactly what you said you'd do. Who cares where Retrouvaille is? If it's in a church or on the moon. It doesn't matter. If you want to fix your relationship then you will go and do the work necessary. You told him the right things. You made a stand. I think you will get what you want. But you have to stay determined. He doesn't know what he wants or where he's going. You show leadership, he is likely to follow.
