Hello K. Just caught up on your thread....it is long already. Just because H says he will come back with a decision doesn't mean he will. I would be surprised if he did. Look how my H was done a few weeks ago and then flirting last night. Our Hs still don't know what they want.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
"I would be surprised if he did. Look how my H was done a few weeks ago and then flirting last night. Our Hs still don't know what they want."
I was so hoping someone else said it. What was really interesting to me was K called it. She said "I am gonna be a DB dino".. Well something like that.
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Hi Kalni! Ok, its afternoon now.. you said you would call your C in the morning.. so, how did it go? And how are you doing today? I was also thinking it sounded like a lot to expect from himself, that he could make a decision in 6 weeks, when he hasnt been able to for 6 months, even if he does have the luxury of distance.
Its so sunny here and I am putting off sewing my banners...I'm tired! Shouldnt have gone to bed so late :-)
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Hi guys, spent time with my dad at the hospital today. Things look Okish.
**Lisa, the biopsy came out, it's stage II. Many lymph nodes are affected. 15 out of 25 taken out. It doesn't sound promising, does it? I was actually surprised it wasn't already stage III granted he could not eat or drink anything before the operation. I am still optimistic. Am I wrong to be?
H came by to stay with the kids. No much interaction with him. Friendly and ... distant again. He called many times while I was at the hospital to learn how things were going. He had visited my dad in the morning before he came to our house.
Ali, I didn't call my C until I came back. 2 hours ago. She said that he surprised her by telling her he wanted to discuss the exercise he had sent her weeks ago. Last time he went there he told her "I do not wish to talk about it".
So they did. He said he wants to come home, he scared he hasn't changed any (while I have) and that that will take us back where we were. That's no news. But he was more concrete and talked about how the future might be. He said THERE IS NO ONE else. That he is so preoccupied with this he can't even enjoy a drink with his friends (or GFs if I may add). She told him we are different people now, the same cannot happen. She asked him if he ever told me about the thing she hated and discussed them with me. He said "yes, right before I left". She said "then it was too late". She told me he has no guilt or he is not thinking about coming back because of his sense of "duty". He actually feels good that he left when he did because we were going to kill each other if we stayed in the same house. Ia sked her if she sees me becoming a DB dino. She said, "No way. He is right before making a decision and if he comes back, I can tell you it will be a conscious and very well thought decision". (Amen!!!).
