I'm sorry that you had to go through this today especially right before Mother's Day.
I think however that they have to be told the truth at some point in the R/S. Your H has to make a decision and even though you may have pushed a bit I think that it was necessary at this stage.
Just try and relax and spend tomorrow with you two little angels.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*