Bworl,

I dont see what the connection is, between "you should 'support' someone going through MLC", and "you should be completely okay with them dating other people, and 'support' them doing that."
Those seem like two very different things to me.

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she has no proof that he's even been looking for another woman.


Errr.. dunno if you've ever looked at at the online dating sites, so dont know if you understand what's going on here.
"making your profile active", IS, LITERALLY, "looking for another woman". Or to be more specific, advertising to other women, "Hi, I want to date other women now".

And before, it was specifically "Not active".
That's not the same as "hasnt checked it for a while. they are two different actions on his part.

He made a concious decision in the very recent past, "I'm going to make this 'active', so that women who are looking for dates, will see me in their search and can ask me out on a date".

It's one thing if he said, "ok, we're dating... but I'm also going to see other people". Trixi might not LIKE that, but it's his choice, and he would have been honest at least.
However, this is different. This is him saying one thing ("we're 'exclusively dating'") and then doing another (actively looking to pick up someone else to date)


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle