Gone as in out of the house? Checked out of the marriage? Not there? Ouch!
I read a book called "Blink".. that people make up their mind, intuitively pick up things in the blink of an eye, but don't realize it. I used to think everyone had the answer within, it was finding the right question that was hard to figure out.
What do I know? When my spouse dropped the bomb, I knew that being a family, keeping the marriage, being bound to each other was the right answer for me. I just never realized it was my passion.
Take care of yourself, Ms. Kalni... find time to sleep, eat, love your family, find time for yourself. Slow down, walk away from the computer, take time to hear the beat of your heart. Take time.. you are loved.
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