It's called having compassion cagz. If you are waiting for an apology or I am sorry. Expect to wait an awful long time or maybe an eternity. That's not what this is about!
Ask yourself what would draw your h home? If all you have to say is that is the life you chose those were your choices, why would your h come home or want to. There is NO reason to.
There is a lot you can do. It starts with forgetting the past, having compassion, letting go of the anger, stop putting your h down and looking beyond their mistakes and weaknesses.
Enjoy the moment, it's all you have! Don't waste your time on what once was, it's gone!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"