Yeah, I get the wanting to be with someone who wants to be with you. That was the whole attractiveness of the OM to me....my H wanted to be with me, but it wasn't the same. It was flattering. I would ignore the call, yes. Ignore that whole situation, h4h. Seriously. You can already see the "pull" of this. Back away from it as fast as you can.
Like you said...GAL. What is something you could do that would be fun? HOw about having a friend over to watch the game with you and have beer at home? Or, the bucket of balls...maybe with a friend? Or, the cologne idea is a good one....nothing like a little new cologne to get your W thinking. You need to so something....remember she thinks you are boring.....if she calls and you are home doing nothing, she thinks to herself....."typical". Find someone "cool" and "fun" (NOT B) and do something cool and fun.