"if he were the type to only think about himself, then things would be far different over here in many different ways. he has never backed out of his responsibilties except for the fact that he is not here but the rest he still takes care of. "
Steelers what if he hadn't financial provided for you all to remain living as you do for these past 2 years and you had had to move or work full time would it have affected how you treat him and accept that he lives with another woman ?(not sure why she (ow) is to be expected. Bworl made some good points. I feel he is still depriving you of lots of things very selfishly. Surely marriage is more than being provided with material things, what about companionship, love moral and emotional support etc. What example is he setting to your children. Yes he may be sick but obviously not sick enough to get help or not sick enough to see a Dr. or give up work or follow his beliefs he so freely talks about. Take care.
