Confused no longer - Give me the strength

[Snow White]

After getting off work H went shopping to buy me a monther's day gift. Earlier in the week he said he might take D to the dollar store to pick something out since he has no $.

There was about $130 in room on his credit card - I only pay a certain amount on it each month that he uses for gas because otherwise he would just run it up, he also has a set amount of "spending money" every 2 weeks and the rest of our money is in a separate account. After shopping there was $25.

After his shopping he started texting again, little jabs about must be nice how I go out 4 times a week and he can't afford to go anywhere.

I mentioned I was out once.

He said, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday and this afternoon.

I responded.

Tuesday - we went to the movies together
Thursday - I took D to gym this is not going out - you went to a golf meeting at the bar
Friday - yes I went out to dinner and drinks with my friend
Today - went mother's day shopping, and look so did you! We went out the same~

Back again, you bought yourself things, I can't afford to buy myself things. Explained I spent a gift certificate from my birthday in October and an additional 84 cents, plus the gifts for our moms - his too. Still says but you got yourself clothes I have never gone shopping for clothes.

Really feeling bad for himself. Or - needs another reason to complain that I am doing things, first it was no drinking and driving, then the internet predator, now its $.


He then stopped in with my gift in a gift bag and stayed for about an hour(he is coming tomorrow morning, not sure why he brought it tonight).

At one point I mentioned something about the car dealership in town closing and he said when he went down there to look at used cars they were all gone. We have 2 leased vehicles. It was discussed if we separated that he would have to either have one transferred to hs name, or get a loan to buy it, neither of which he can afford if he had to live on his salary alone. So if he does not want to be separated why is he looking at used cars??? But he gave up the info pretty easy, playing games?