I just think your advice right now serves no good purpose. The only thing it gains is that temporary satisfaction we all feel when we've spouted off about something that pisses us off. And in this case, we don't even know if there's anything real to be spouting off about.
That's true, too.
(And I want to again say that I really appreciate getting different perspectives/thoughts/idea. It gives me a lot to think about since I know that sometimes I can't see the forest for the trees.)
I am so sorry for all of a sudden needing so much help here. I *was* doing fairly well, (even really good) until he did this about-face act directly after such a great time. I feel like I got sucker punched.
Maybe, (I hope and pray to God) I am just over-reacting to his pulling back and it doesn't mean a catastrophe. Maybe he just needs to get back in the groove of things.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
