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cat03 #1441156 05/09/08 06:04 PM
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I am not changing my emails for their dumb asses.

I spoke to her yesterday about my son. javier is pissed off to high heaven that her and I spoke.

So she emailed me yesterday, b/c she was shitting a brick about him being mad at her.

Like I am really going to help her in her R with my X.

Things must be fine and dandy with them today, b/c not a peep from either one of them.

Went on a field trip with my Daughter's 1st greade class

I don't remember being that loud in the first grade.

Jeepers.


Thank you all for passing by. Like AH said, it is a dip in the rollercoaster.

I think for the first time their R is really real to me, and it hurt that he could be so in "love" and just be part of a new family, with her kids.

While my babies still pray for him to come home

Blech.

It will be a great day today regardless.

smoooooches.


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Lissie #1441163 05/09/08 06:09 PM
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So she emailed me yesterday, b/c she was shitting a brick about him being mad at her.

Like I am really going to help her in her R with my X.


Oh, but think of the fun you could have!!!!!!!!!! ;\)


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hugs))))))))

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he could be so in "love"

but what kind of love? it aint' the real kind doll, the true love each of us had when those men actually had their act together and wanted us because of who were where not as bandaids. That was love, the men they are now deserve the trash they are with.


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cat03 #1441221 05/09/08 07:22 PM
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Lissie #1441243 05/09/08 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted By: Lissie
Went on a field trip with my Daughter's 1st greade class

I don't remember being that loud in the first grade.

Jeepers.


LOL, me neither, but I was taught by some tough nuns!

You are a great mom, I'll bet she was so pleased and proud to have you along.

I'm glad all is quiet on the lunatic front today...small favors and all.

Have a happy friday night!

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Hi sweetness, just checking on you today......love yah ! xxxx


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Bean, sometimes things happen to us because we are the one's capable of handling them.

God is not putting anything in your path that you are not capable of dealing with.

As Monty Python would say, It is merely a flesh wound.

Reality is that the truth is coming from all of this. You are learning, OW is learning, and yes....Puffblackeye is even learning.


Your path is continuing and possibly even opening up a bit to show you what kind of road you will be walking for the time being.

The tornadoes are coming now so I must go.Hang in there Lissie, there is nothing but strength to be gained from these experiences.

Just ask tomalicious........ Glad no one is spewing all the gaudy details of our weekend together.....wouldnt want anyone getting there panties or jockstraps in an uproar now would we.......

Back in hiding.....

Ian


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Sorry hotcheeks. What you posted has gotta hurt it's painful just to read it. Kids do not need this and it's not a good thing reguardless.


My kid did the same. Somedays you just wanna cry or scream.
Best to you hotcheeks.


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Originally Posted By: sofaraway


As Monty Python would say, It is merely a flesh wound.



Is that the scene where his arm was severed?


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those are MY babies


And they ALWAYS will be, dear Chica. Nothing can change that!

As for Susan, pray for her. It is hard, I know. This is for YOUR healing, not hers, although the prayers will help her, too.
Amy is right: Javier did this, not her.

I'm re-reading the book of John, and so far, Jesus has said 3 times that whatever is asked in His name will be given to you.
Ask for her salvation and for your own peace.

And remember you are loved.

David


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