Umm.. how about something in there about, "these feelings will get better with time, so long as H treats you consistently, with consideration, care, and not pulling crap like going on dating sites" ?
Point well taken. I just remembered something else. (I hate that!) Last night he said: "It isn't just about sex, L." Two things about that statement- First, he never calls me by my first name unless he is mad or distant. Second, no duh! I asked what he meant and he just repeated it. I wasn't in the right frame of mind to follow thru. But just now I had a (terrible) thought. What if that was his way of giving me a hint that he is talking with someone? Or that he is looking (still) for 'something' more. Or, if I look on the sunny side of the street, maybe he was just saying we need to talk more. ..I dunno.
Bad omen?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
