Cactus would be a brilliant gift. But, you were right, in that, why waste the money buying a gift that would not be appreciated. I hope your older children do choose to live with you, otherwise they may find themselves doing a lot of babysitting while mommy goes out to play. Just a thought!
I would've called, except I didn't have your number with me. Sorry. But, you know you can call me anytime.
I think you have the right attitude ... live in the moment, and don't worry about the future. Also, don't let your W get to you. Try going somewhat grey, and just focus on the kids, and treat W like an acquaintance ... polite, but distant.
Time for LRT, do ya think?????
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
But, you were right, in that, why waste the money buying a gift that would not be appreciated. I hope your older children do choose to live with you, otherwise they may find themselves doing a lot of babysitting while mommy goes out to play. Just a thought!
But, you know you can call me anytime. 
