Is this the same Dom R who wrote these words to Amy C not more than two weeks ago?
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I understand that. I understand that you had a lousy marriage before your MLC. The lack of support from your H, most likely made your MLC be a deep nasty one, instead of what might have been a less troubling one.
Look, it's good for Trixi to get both sides of the coin here so to speak, but your approach is something akin to Shermans march through Georgia. It's a "burn it all down, let God build it back up" approach.
Trixi can go either way. But the bottom line is that she does not have any definitive proof that he has been with another person. For that matter, she has no proof that he's even been looking for another woman.
Checking out your existing profile on a dating site is something that I can easily see an MLC, separated from his wife, man doing. Doesn't make it right. But it also doesn't make it a breach of whatever they have going right now.
Don't get me wrong. If he's trolling again, I tell him to kiss off in a heartbeat. I see absolutely nothing to be gained by allowing a mentally impaired spouse bring even more aggravation into your life.
I just think your advice right now serves no good purpose. The only thing it gains is that temporary satisfaction we all feel when we've spouted off about something that pisses us off. And in this case, we don't even know if there's anything real to be spouting off about.
My opinion.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
