H just came and got the things that I had left on the porch for him. He wasn't going to say anything to me, but I went out and talked to him, asking him if there was anything else he needed from the house. He said no. I asked him if he had somewhere to stay and he shrugged and said something about he could sleep in our garage if nothing else.

I have to remind myself that I am not the bad guy here. I sure feel bad. He looked so pathetic. Yet I do feel a little relieved. He didn't call the police...he didn't do anything. Maybe now I can actually sleep at night...

I did tell him that if he was ever willing to REALLY work on things, the door was still open to that posibility. He said. "Alright..thanks."

Sara


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08