i do believe that we have different parts in ourselves and, yes, there is a part in your wife that truly does not want to be happy, and at the same time there is the one that really wants to. so then it comes down to "which wolf do we feed". whatever she does you have no control over but which wolf does your actions feed?
i wonder from before what kinda good times you had w/your family, w/ her, w/ all the kids. like dinner that you were describing, then some tv time. may be something in the community, with friends. what was good /fun before. is there anyway to rekindle good time as a family - just a brainstorming thought
me, h - 40+ m-20+ s, d, ss - 20+ s, ow, pa since 04.2007 h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008 h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1415899&page=1&fpart=1