"I'm hanging in there. Thank you so much for offering your ear and support. I love and appreciate you tremendously!!!"
You can acknowledge their support while choosing to keep private matters private.
On detaching...perhaps you can try just being indifferent to W...whether she comes, goes, moves to planet Xenon where she'd probably be happier with the rest of the aliens. I'm imagining she enjoys (somewhat) the sense of power that comes with you asking her when she's going to leave. It's another form of pursuit, and it doesn't give her the opportunity to say, "Holy cr@p! H doesn't care anymore!"
Just thoughts. Good luck to you!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
