so i sounded too critical and there are no hugs for me anymore \:\(

i tried to do it with as many i-statements as a could, well... i tried

Jeff, i think we all have control issues when we feel not safe with people we do not trust.

thank you for explanation about the boxes. i kinda read it literally and wondered if you still have them in reality \:\)

what usually happens when she starts to remember old stuff like that and you would say sorry that it happened and that it still pains her?

me, h - 40+
m-20+
s, d, ss - 20+
s, ow, pa since 04.2007
h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008
h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1415899&page=1&fpart=1