Husband says "he's done trying".....now what?

[Snow White]

Barbara, it was great meeting you, you are a wonderful lady and you will get through this. The network of friends you have around you seem amazing.

I was thinking I know you are going to have "the talk" either tonight or tomorrow. Mybe try to talk in terms of the family as opposed to the marriage might be less scary for him to admit that the family is something that he still cares a great deal about.