Confused no longer - Give me the strength

[Snow White]

Good day all. Just got back from my trip to the mall to meet up with lovely Barbara66, she was very nice and nothing like the internet predator waiting to kill me H was concerned about. On the positive side, it was nice to leave my D at home and just have grown up talk so I'm glad H insisted on it.

I went out with my girlfriend last night, for a few hours. Once again pursued by H while I am out, mostly negative comments, designed to get a response or some sort of validation. I did repsond but left long spaces in between which is growth for me from the first time I went out and texted back and forth about 60 times each.

I did not respond to the first text I rec'd asking what I was wearing to pick up guys, so the second one about a half hour later said, that I always had a problem with him not responding to me when he was out(which he never did, and we aren't talking 20 min) and now that is how I act. I had D picked up and was on my way home by 10:30. H had asked me to call his cell when I got home on the way home in the car I phoned, he texted me to say that he would talk to me in the morning, he was too angry right now and he might say something he regretted??? At me??

H had to work at 8 today, when I woke up at 8:30 there were 4 texts on my phone, one asking if I had a hangover at 7:15(from 2 drinks in 4 hours?), then a few minutes later saying I missed out by sleeping in because he was going to buy coffee, then saying I see that you didn't put any air in your tire like I told you to(obviously doing a drive by) and the last send me a photo so I can put your picture on a milk carton after you leave to meet the person off the internet....

I am not sure he has read any info on detatching....

I went to the mall and had a nice chat and a nice lunch and picked up my mother's day gifts. H is starting his excuses for why he should skip mother;s day brunch tomorrow. I was shocked when he originally acted like he was coming, I did not invite just said it was happening, he assumed he was invited. Today he said he is not sure if he is going does not want to see my parents. I responded, if you really do intend for us to stay together you will have to see them at some point.