You tell him that you saw him on match. You tell him you went to match because it's going to take awhile for you to trust again, so in your suspicion, you checked it out. You tell him that you loved your trip together, that you truly enjoyed being close again. And you honestly tell him that when he begins to back away, you struggle with thinking that he's wanting someone else.
Then you tell him that you honestly know that these feelings will get better with time.
That sounds pretty good.
Right now, based on the vibes from him last night, I feel like we have just stepped back 6 months. NOT a good thing. If I burden him with my emotional needs right now, I think that could be the kiss of death.
I guess I will see how tonight goes at dinner and Cirque.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing