But when DBing, doesn't the truth have to take a backseat?

Not to say that we lie; but rather keep our feelings to ourselves.

I mean, look at all of us who come HERE to vent- because the truth? WAS can't handle the truth! We insulate our WAS from our own volatile thoughts and feelings while we watch them twist and spin and we wait. and wait.

I did explain that given the knowledge that he was recently active on match, and then him canceling, I was making some (logical) assumptions. Then he said "well, did you think I would come tonight?" and I said "yeah, I did." and he said "well, at least you believe that."

Argh.
I am in extreme, beat-myself-up mode.





Last edited by Trixi; 05/10/08 06:07 PM.
Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing