((((((Ali)))))) I think you have hit it. For some time, I have thought that she doesn't WANT to be happy. I think, and now I'm getting way out there, that it has to do with her control issues. Happy seems to me to be a little bit of an uncontrolled emotion. When you are happy, you might not really be in control of yourself. I think the same thing could be why she doesn't like sex. She hates the idea of not being in total control of herself.
You are right Ali, I do need to ask her. And you are right, I am doing more to address the situation than she is. She is very self absorbed right now.
