I was teasing about the 27 year old, I figured it wasnt serious! Its like me chatting to the hot guy at college, chatting is one thing, but anything else? NO WAY!
You said..I wonder why I sounded done to you. I am not done yet, I don't feel done yet.... becuase the way you sounded on Woogs thread, like you accepted being a single mum! I take it back then! I'm not done either, I think you just made me realise, I feel shut off too, self preservation as you say.
I'm sorry you are scared today...I'm guessing here (speculating) but maybe its wierd for him too to be away for 1 1/2 months. But maybe he has thought he will have to make a decision and he can use that time to think, to work out what he wants? Maybe his being distant today was part of that shutting down, withdrawing. Why do you think she is "in" big time? You mean, he cant give her up? (yet).
This is such a rollercoaster, one minute he is kissing the back of your neck, the next he is cool and dashing off again..I hope the C has something positive to say to you. Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
