i knew long ago that he was self-medicating and the ow--that is to be expected...........i dont obssess over it any more because she really does not mean anything to him and she certainly has no part in my life or my kids. she is messed up, too.

it is a journey these spouses are on and i accept that.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19