what i think will happen, is that doing nothing different, will give you the exact same results. Things will go right back to the way they were before. ie: BAD, and him looking to date other people again, and not tell you about it.
oh wait, he's already starting that :-/

Sometimes, you have to "strike while the iron is hot".

Although you may have now missed that opportunity already \:\(

Maybe you should find yourself some alternative plans for this weekend, and NOT allow him to stay over.
He's treating you badly. I dont think you should put up with that. He loses respect for you. And HE said that respect for you is important to him and is an important part of attraction for him.


oh: ps: as far as professionals go... maybe you need to find a different counsellor. your current one hasnt helped you much, it seems?
(maybe you need to find a male one, who can better understand your H!!)

Last edited by Dom R; 05/10/08 04:33 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle