OH, and I just remembered something else. He watched Lost on Thursday. I have been recording Lost and "saving' it for us to watch since the season began. And before that we always watched it together. When I said something like "What?? *we* watch that." He says "Well, I got back from [the going away dinner] and wanted to watch tv. Nothing else was on." and he had a very "get over it" aire about him.
Each of these things individually, no big deal. Stacked one right on top of the other; not so good.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing