Hmmmm so not only did he not try and call the police, he didn't even come home. Sounds like he was blowing smoke. I agree he's just manipulating you.
Stick to your guns. I know this isn't the end in your mind, but a S might be necessary, or at least a firm boundary on him coming and going at all hours of the night.
(((((((Sara)))))))) You are strong.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2