Stop checking up on him. It keeps you insecure. Get your game on girlfriend. YOU are the prize!!! Don't convince him to do anything, you can make a suggestion, an invitation (once in awhile....so this means not for awhile now)....

Drink less, so you have more control over your feelings. I have to watch this too, because I love red wine, but I don't sip anything. But then my emotions become a little more fragile. So especially if feelings and behavior might be at risk, I'll drink something different or alternate drinks.

Not your job to feed him, that's not dating. He feeds you.


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001