That maybe a MLC happens because people are too focused on themselves in stead of others. I am sure that I could get pretty bitter about what others have not done to satisfy me in my life and how unfair life is and how I want what I want if I allowed myself to be that self absorbed. I do not think it is an intentional thing to get like that but our society promotes being all about you and what makes you happy.
Watching my wife go through this is a big eye opener for me. I am thankful that at least in her state of "self awareness" she knew that she could not nurture her children and left them with me.
I don't mean to be mean, but ya know.... life is not about you. It is not about what makes you happy. If that is your focus and goal, I think you are setting yourself up for some big let downs. The great figures in our history have been people that have given their lives and devoted their lives to the well being of others. I wonder if there will be anyone from our generation who will go down in history like that?
I know that it is a trap and anyone can fall into it. I pray that I never do and I pray that if you have, you will be able to see the forest for the trees and see that life is much more fulfilling when we place importance on others. I truly mean that. My job allows me to help others for a living and just when I get bogged down by it all, I am able to see a positive effect of my work and it gives me meaning. I feel the same way about my family at times.
