So good to hear from what I now consider old friends ( isnt that scary ).
Sunny we have this weird parellel universe thing going on
Well I picked myself up and can give you all a little more detail of how things went.
First :
When I spoke with W at her house on Monday , I quietly just said " why did you lie? and at least now I can move on ".
That was all and I went home . Later that night the text messages started. I got 2 , "just a friend " " here for coffee" " cant believe you checking up on me" etc etc. Normaly I would have responded , but I just turned my phone off and phoned a friend to talk too on the land line to keep my mind off W and also so she could not phone.
This going silent is a big 180 , I have never done that to W before. I actualy had no desire to respond or talk to W at all so it was an easy 180.
In the morning there were 5 messages on my phone , all along similar lines and quite angry ( best defence being an offence )
During the day I responded as to why I was at her house and that she can see who she wants , I just wish she would be honest.
I got another message with more of the same " hes happily married , old friend etc etc" I ignored it.
Communication ceases
The next night she picks up D , rather than come in as usual she toots from driveway for D to come out.
Same for next couple of days , avoids me. I decide I need to lift my spirits and went and got some new clothes and one or two things for the house. Went out to friends small party last night and feeling good.
Then today.
I wanted to know if D would be home later and also invited W for dinner as its our one night we all get together. This realy more for Kids. So I txt and ask and get no reply.
So I txt again and said " Can you at least let me know if D will be here tonight"
I got a reply " dont get angry , yes D will be home , I not sure if there for dinner" " I txt her saying "thanks , I am off to Pub will be back home about 5.30" Later I get a txt " will take up your offer for dinner if that OK ?" I showered ,got dressed in my new clothes then went out . W was home with D & S when I arrived with takeaways. W had lit fire and fed animals as well. She was quite subdued but pleasant and looking like a lost puppy to be honest. I had on my best PMA , joked with the kids and we all sat and watched a movie together. W left after that coming over and giving me a firm Kiss , and thanked me for dinner.
My conclusion from all this.
W is not 100% gone , in fact some way from that. She has been having a bit of an adventure and enjoying it but is not wanting me to move on. Now the other night she got caught out. I 180 and respond quite differently to what she expected. She panics and rightly thinks that she may have just blown it.
Right now I am taking my time . I am re assessing what my Goals are , I am a little over W and her antics right now .
