Cinders, you trully are an awesome woman, mother, and wife. Your H is so totally blind to not see that. You deserve so much happiness in your life and I pray that one day you get all that you deserve.

If only I could get myself to be where you are at. If I could be half as strong as you, to do what is right for me and my girls.

" I decided to tell her about TRUE love....how letting someone go, however painful it is, is actually an act of TRUE love...and that because I love her daddy SO MUCH, that I feel that I must let him go and be happy where he feels happy."

This is sooo true and I admire you for letting it be...

((((Cinders))))

Take care and God Bless You,
TOH

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!