When life just hits you

[ACJ]

the kids feel that, in order to get their dad's attention, they have to "like" the OW

My H has all but said this to my children and his actions certainly say it. That has hurt them more than anything else.

Cinders I too know how all this feels. I didn't handle it with your grace and in a way I am paying the price now. You are one special lady. Never forget that.

[angelica]

Hi, I have been away for a few days, so only just caught up with your posts. I am so sorry about your daughter. I agree with the others - the OW novelty will wear off, but your grace and dignity will NOT be forgotten.

I cannot think of anyone here who has handled her sitch better than you, in how you deal with OW around the kids, truly. I am awestruck.

Hugs, A

[Cinderellaman]

Hi,

Just want you all to know that I am doing well !

I had a migraine attack today - probably from all the stress lately, but I am fine !

Kids went swimming at friend's houses this afternoon, I'm so happy that they are all doing so much better !

H called, he has the beginnings of pneumonia...I told him that I was sorry he was feeling bad, that hopefully he would feel better soon.

Thank you for all your kind encouragement, I love you all so very much, you are wonderful friends and you have all taught me so much ! I am in awe of all of you and thank GOD that He brought me to this place !

Will post soon !

[angelica]

Cinders - I am trying VERY HARD to feel sorry for your h. But it is tough.

A

[Cinderellaman]

I don't feel sorry for him either....

I no longer feel responsible.

I'm sure ow is taking good care of him, and he has all that he needs.

Glad to see you here again Angelica !

[Truelove]

Cinders,
Just wanted to say Hi. (((HUGS)))

[Cinderellaman]

Hi Truelove !

Thanks for dropping by !

All is ok here....H has told kids that he (once AGAIN...) has a 'SURPRISE' for them this weekend ! He can't seem to go one weekend just doing something normal.

D9 was upset because she will be at her dad's on Sunday, ...on Mother's Day. I told her that her dad would bring them home by 3pm and that I will be waiting for them...that Mother's Day is everyday anyway...we both cried. I decided to tell her about TRUE love....how letting someone go, however painful it is, is actually an act of TRUE love...and that because I love her daddy SO MUCH, that I feel that I must let him go and be happy where he feels happy. We both cried some again.

I am so proud of my kids, they are wonderful little angels !

Life still makes ups and downs...I just seem to cope with them better these days.

I thank God for everything that is going well, and try to leave the rest u to HIM ! God has a plan for us, of that I am sure !

Take care dear friends !

[glamgirl]

Your posts Cinders always bring tears to my eyes. You are an amazing woman. Your h is blind not to see that.

You are so right! God does have a plan for our lives. We just can't see it right now. It will all be revealed in due time.

Hugs!

[Cinderellaman]

Hi Glam, you sound so much better these days too !! I am so proud of you ! Take care sweety !

xxxx

[theotherhalf]

Cinders, you trully are an awesome woman, mother, and wife. Your H is so totally blind to not see that. You deserve so much happiness in your life and I pray that one day you get all that you deserve.

If only I could get myself to be where you are at. If I could be half as strong as you, to do what is right for me and my girls.

" I decided to tell her about TRUE love....how letting someone go, however painful it is, is actually an act of TRUE love...and that because I love her daddy SO MUCH, that I feel that I must let him go and be happy where he feels happy."

This is sooo true and I admire you for letting it be...

((((Cinders))))

Take care and God Bless You,
TOH