In 4 months we will we be able to get divorced. Will H wait until then before starting to make steps back towards me?!? I guess I'm just waiting to see what the next 4 months hold and the n I think I 'm ready to move on and meet someone new.
I have the same feeling. We have 6 months to go and I still get the idea that she is playing that game too. She never talks about D. She has not since she left. But you are right. The respect thing will be a hard obstacle to overcome. I see all of her flaws and selfish tendencies. Like you I have nothing but time to think about things like this. I guess I will be/should be prepared when D day comes.
