Can you work a deal with the lawn guy? He can do the inside and you will do the outside?
I know you thought you were doing the right thing Mat. As with most of us our concern is getiing our marriage back in tact, not getting the best deal for ouselves. Your H took advantage of you plain and simple.
Even though he does have "liberal use of the house" he still needs to abide by the two hour notice rule.
Not sure how things work, but I suppose there is no changing this after the fat? WTH was your lawyer thinking? Did he not adives you this was a bad idea?
Hugs to you (((Mat))). You only did what you thought was right, hopefully one day you will be rewarded for doing so.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011