Maybe you could enlist your inlaws? Tell them that he's bordering on emotional abuse...the things he's doing...maybe they can talk some sense into him.
Or you could get a restraining order if he pushes it. Or sell the car. And stop paying for anything that should be his responsibility.
Wow. Do you have family in the area? Somewhere you could disappear to for a few days? Be unavailable?
Hotwire has incredible deals on hotel rooms...what if you just disappeared for 2-3 days? My H and I paid like $75 for an amazing room at the Sheraton in downtown St. Louis the night before we moved...maybe you can find a similar deal? We've had rooms at 4 star hotels in STL for that price a few times when we've come back for family visits.
I say disappear for a few days if you can. The break will do you good. DO NOT answer your phone. Let your family know you're okay and that you do not want any contact with your H.
Blah!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
