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[buenosuerte]

it's now friday night and each night since then d and i have been staying at his house, each day gets longer and longer the next day. he's trying to talk to his roomates as what to do about us moving in, but when we left today we did not leave it so well.

here's the sitch: on monday he asked d and i to go to a concert with him and friends friday night, i was like um an 8 month old out past 9 pm not in bed with loud music not a good place for her to be. he "said" i want you there, getting a babysitter not an option for either of us, i told him just to go, have fun be with his friends - mother whatever. i tell ya i'm home again with d while he's out there doing whatever he wants with no responsibility of us. i am let down, big time by this. my d broke my phone and h gave me another and had to have it flashed, he knew i was not going to pick it up, i didn't so i am unreachable. i really don't feel like talking to him, even if he says he won't have a good time knowing d and i are in a house with no a/c (phoenix high 90's) no phone and by ourselves, i'm like oh please after you have a few beers hang with your friends we are but a memory.

my problem is if he wanted to be with us as a family he would have sacrificed his concert to be with us. he asks what he's doing wrong and i just tell him, nothing thank you for being honest about what you want to do. me and d are going to live our lives differently, we'd like you with us as a family but it's cool if you're not. i told him i will not put him as the center of our worlds since we are not his. i put d in car kissed him goodbye and said have a good weekend and drove off.

i kind of expected this: when the weekend rolls around back to normal partying self for him, mehome with the kido.

so how would michele solve this one?