I'm sure that your H is annoyed that now your doing things for yourself and maybe you weren't before. For me, I was bitter that I had to spend even less on myself to cover what H spent more of. I can imagine you felt the same way. So as a result, our H's were annoyed that we were bitter because we didn't do anything for ourselves and they thought in their minds that to fix it, we should just buy/do something for ourselves. make sense? So, I think you might have taken his comment about your sunglasses a little different then what he was thinking. Just giving you my perspective from what I have realized about my own H. and I've seen many similarities about you and your H with me and my H.

definitely Happy Mothers Day weekend to you! You are going to be a great mom!


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."