I am so glad that you had positive interaction with H yesterday (including burritos!!) and positive interaction with him on the phone today. hooray for new earrings also!! that is so great that you got a massage! I just learned this yoga thing called "shoulder flossing", it might help your shoulder (it's definitely helped mine) if you want I can ask my teacher if it's good for people with formerly dislocated shoulders, and then try to explain it somehow...
