Thanks for the responses! It means a great deal to me.
I sometimes think H is in MLC but other times not. He certianly has some symptoms that I cannot deny. Many of our problems have been around for some time but they seem to be repairable. Of course I can't force him into MC and he did go to IC. I think the IC should have been continued but I got the feeling that he didn't like what the T had to say. I think the T tried to encourage H to come home but H is a stubborn man.
Like I said above I don't need him. I love him dearly but I don't need him.
He can be sweet and kind one day and a complet a$$ the next. I guess if he wants to be a D!ck its his porrogitive. I am getting to the point that I don't want him around here. I asked him today "why are you here" LOL
I need a game plan of sorts.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
