What if after all of this hand wringing on my part, etc, he only logged into his match acct. Nothing else. No dates. No 'wink'ing at anyone. Nothing but a guy who has had 4 weeks out of 6 weeks off and just had to go to work for a week and now he's tired.
And what if my obvious impatience is pushing him away?
I think showing up there would do absolutely NO good if he *is* home. He would feel disrespected and put upon. If I could think of a scenario where it turns out good, then I might risk it, but all I see are a bunch of downsides.
Can you picture anything postive coming from it?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
